Get What You Want…You can’t push a river

Get What You Want…You can’t push a river

I don’t know about you but sometimes, especially this year, even the simplest things take more time than you can imagine. It feels like we are always playing hurry up and wait.   Just like we can’t make a river get to the ocean faster, sometimes we have to...
Get What You Want…The Cure for Anxiety Is…

Get What You Want…The Cure for Anxiety Is…

Feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed? I don’t know about you, but I know I have days where the stack of things I think need to be done, by me, and now is taller than I am.  Ok, at 5’1” that’s not as tall as it might be, but it can be overwhelming and anxiety-producing....
Get What You Want…Not Another Thing

Get What You Want…Not Another Thing

Are you done? So many of the people I work with are. The next thing, no matter how big or small, will break the proverbial camel’s back.  Just as water is still at 211 degrees and boiling at 212, just the thought of one more thing feels like it is the difference...
Get What You Want…Proceed until Apprehended

Get What You Want…Proceed until Apprehended

It’s been another interesting week. Lots of opportunities and lots of ways it could be derailed. I learned a long time ago, that if I wait for the blocks to be cleared, I’ll be waiting a while. I could have waited for permission to reach out to the leaders I have...
Get What You Want…Boundaries

Get What You Want…Boundaries

Boundaries. An easy word to throw around. A hard one to honor. Boundaries for where you focus your time. Boundaries on who you let into your space. But if you don’t have them, you will focus on whoever is around and where they want you to look. I get it. It’s hard. We...
Get What You Want…Do you like you?

Get What You Want…Do you like you?

It’s been a minute. Actually, more like a month. Summer is my busiest time of year. This year between family losses including my mom’s death and the usual busy, it was just a lot. And I lost track of September. In addition to whatever is happening, the pandemic is...