Get What You Want…What Are You Waiting For?

Get What You Want…What Are You Waiting For?

Three years ago, a friend of mine received a deadly diagnosis. She found a treatment protocol and got her affairs in order, and then went about living her very best life. She took the trips, saw her friends and family, wore the costumes, got the legislation she cared...
Get What You Want…Focus on Yourself

Get What You Want…Focus on Yourself

When I was a synchronized swimmer, it was easy to compare myself to others. Especially my duet partner. In duet, the job is to be together perfectly matched. But in solos and figure competition, well, your job is to be the best you can be. Period. Full stop. You both...
Get What You Want…Expect It

Get What You Want…Expect It

I am a firm believer in planning and driving forward. And planning for what might go wrong. But we also need to plan for what might go right, so you don’t miss opportunities. We tend to see what we are looking for. If we are looking for trouble, we almost always find...
Get What You Want…Slow Down to Speed Up

Get What You Want…Slow Down to Speed Up

It’s been a good few weeks with projects that make a difference. But often my work is filled with hills and valleys. Tons of work and then a lull and then slammed again.  Last week I was swamped. Plus I’m supposed to be working on the book and supporting a couple of...
Get What You Want…Just 51%

Get What You Want…Just 51%

A friend and I were talking this weekend and she asked, “are you always positive?” As if. Nope, I’m not. I’m not always sure things will work out, work out how I want, that I will succeed, or that I am right.  And here’s the secret, I (and you) don’t have to be. We...
Get What You Want…Don’t hibernate, communicate

Get What You Want…Don’t hibernate, communicate

It’s dark and cold and gloomy. It’s so tempting to hunker down under the covers and hibernate. And maybe we all deserve, and even need, a little time in hibernation.  But to get what you want; you can’t just lay there. You have to move forward. That doesn’t mean...