Get What You Want…Create Some Normal

Get What You Want…Create Some Normal

I am too short to sit at my desk. My feet don’t touch the floor. So, I have to wear shoes with heels. Sometimes I wear stilettos. I want to practice so I can wear them after the pandemic. But mostly, I wear a pair of black Dansko clogs. For most of my life, I have...
Get What You Want…Slow Down to Speed Up

Get What You Want…Slow Down to Speed Up

It’s been a good few weeks with projects that make a difference. But often my work is filled with hills and valleys. Tons of work and then a lull and then slammed again.  Last week I was swamped. Plus I’m supposed to be working on the book and supporting a couple of...
Get What You Want…Get Happy

Get What You Want…Get Happy

Ok. I know the anniversary of lockdown is tomorrow. But that makes this even more important. Being miserable never helped anyone or anyone around them.  Success doesn’t lead to happiness; happiness leads to success. Doing more of what makes us happy matters.  1. It...
Get What You Want…Without Guilt

Get What You Want…Without Guilt

As a cashew, a person of Catholic and Jewish descent, I am an expert on guilt. I spent years living guilt squared. If there was a problem, surely, I caused it. Or at least that’s how I felt. But I gave it up for Lent. Well, I have been giving it up for let every year...
Get What You Want…Don’t hibernate, communicate

Get What You Want…Don’t hibernate, communicate

It’s dark and cold and gloomy. It’s so tempting to hunker down under the covers and hibernate. And maybe we all deserve, and even need, a little time in hibernation.  But to get what you want; you can’t just lay there. You have to move forward. That doesn’t mean...
Get What You Want…Get Creative

Get What You Want…Get Creative

You know I’m working on a book, right? And after two years of this blog, I have a ton of material. I started to read through what I’ve written to figure out what I wanted to include. And actually, I got nowhere. It was overwhelming. I had a plan to read groups of...