Get What You Want… Caterpillars and Butterflies

Get What You Want… Caterpillars and Butterflies

I was going through a rough patch. I was turning everything upside down. Or maybe right side up. I started a new job. Left my husband. Moved to a new place.  Things felt better but nothing felt quite right. Like it fits. It was all a messy jumble. My good friend...
Get What You Want…Without Guilt

Get What You Want…Without Guilt

As a cashew, a person of Catholic and Jewish descent, I am an expert on guilt. I spent years living guilt squared. If there was a problem, surely, I caused it. Or at least that’s how I felt. But I gave it up for Lent. Well, I have been giving it up for let every year...
No Matter What

No Matter What

As I write this, polls are just closing on the east coast and won’t close on the west for a few hours. Tomorrow will arrive no matter what we know and don’t.  Don’t get me wrong, the outcome of the election matters. It matters a lot.  But your goals,...
Opportunity Doesn’t Knock

Opportunity Doesn’t Knock

I listened to a great poetry reading this weekend and heard this amazing line: “Opportunity doesn’t knock on my door, she lives here. I made room for her.” – Kim B. Miller Manifesting what you want is not about making a vision board and then...
Get what you want Wednesday….Ask for it

Get what you want Wednesday….Ask for it

Today I start a new decade. But it totally snuck up on me. I never actually celebrated the last one so it has seemed like I’ve been 40 for 20 years. Not lying about my age ever but internally, utterly unaware and unconcerned. Covid-19 has made me more aware but...
What If Wednesday – What if…it’s good to be uncomfortable?

What If Wednesday – What if…it’s good to be uncomfortable?

Being uncomfortable is, well, uncomfortable. Unpleasant. Undesirable. And yet, it’s the source of innovation. We feel compelled to get out of the discomfort and so we explore and try things. Sometimes we try anything to get to a comfortable place.   The...