What If Wednesday – What if …. you haven’t a clue?

What If Wednesday – What if …. you haven’t a clue?

Really. What if you don’t have a clue?  Some days, I don’t. Many in fact. Especially these days. I don’t know when we won’t be expected to stay home. I don’t know when I’ll get to hug the littles again. I don’t know when there...
What If Wednesday – What if …we default to trust?

What If Wednesday – What if …we default to trust?

I know it’s hard. I hate heights but love parasailing. The view and freedom are amazing. But it is all about trust. Trusting the harness. Trusting the boat and the cable. Trusting those on the boat to send you up, guide the boat and bring you down safely. You...
What If Wednesday – What if …. we open up?

What If Wednesday – What if …. we open up?

It feels like this week has been a year long.  It’s so tempting to hunker down and retreat. To contract. But I wonder if it is really a time to open up and expand. When we hunker down, we protect ourselves but we also lose connection, lose support, and lose the...
3 Tips Thursday  – What do you want?

3 Tips Thursday – What do you want?

It’s only week two. Some of you are doing great on your resolutions. Others have already thrown them away. Or didn’t set them. Or worst of all, low-balled them. Set easily obtainable goals. Here’s the problem. Yup, you’ll likely get to succeed. And for some of you...
3 Tips Thursday  – Expectations

3 Tips Thursday – Expectations

The holidays come with so many expectations. Expectations of gifts, and food and most unpredictable, of people. Some of us have families and workplaces that fit the cultural expectations or at least pieces of them. But most of us don’t really.  Over the years I have...
3 Tips Thursday  – Let it Go – to get it

3 Tips Thursday – Let it Go – to get it

I had to celebrate Frozen 2 today. Can’t wait. Though, like you, I suspect I don’t ever need to hear the song “Let it Go” again. Ever. But I did and continue to learn from it. Several weeks ago, I was all wound up about a meeting that I thought I should be included in...