Get What You Want…Without Guilt

Get What You Want…Without Guilt

As a cashew, a person of Catholic and Jewish descent, I am an expert on guilt. I spent years living guilt squared. If there was a problem, surely, I caused it. Or at least that’s how I felt. But I gave it up for Lent. Well, I have been giving it up for let every year...
Get What You Want…No Resolutions

Get What You Want…No Resolutions

That’s right. I don’t believe in them. I do believe in goals and plans. Multiple action plans. So as we close 2020 and ready for 2021, what do you want? What will it feel like when you get it? What are three to five ways to get there? If one doesn’t...
Get What You Want…Be You

Get What You Want…Be You

I don’t know about you, but I have a bunch of habits that kinda work for me, but don’t fit the rules that are supposed to be better. I have what some would say are terrible study/writing habits. I like to stay up late, with music or video playing in the...
Get What You Want….No Small Fish

Get What You Want….No Small Fish

It’s no secret that I help people figure out what they want and get it. What is a secret is part of my approach?  So many people only admit to part of what they want. They shrink their desire to fit what they think they deserve or they think they can get or they...
What If Wednesday – What if…you don’t get a pass?

What If Wednesday – What if…you don’t get a pass?

I spend time helping others lead boldly and cope with hard things. That was true before 2020 and will be true after. I’ve learned a lot leading in crisis and share it in the hopes of making it easier for others to serve well and come out stronger on the other side....
What If Wednesday – What if…you just say no?

What If Wednesday – What if…you just say no?

Really. Yes, I know we resist it. We over commit. We say yes to things we don’t want to do. We drag our feet when we are afraid that we are going to disappoint someone. But I have a secret. It doesn’t get easier over time. The longer you wait, the more you...