What We Think
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Fill up often.
– Julie Jakopic
What We Think
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Fill up often.
– Julie Jakopic
Lead Boldly Blog
Get What You Want…No Resolutions
That's right. I don't believe in them. I do believe in goals and plans. Multiple action plans. So as we close 2020 and ready for 2021, what do you want? What will it feel like when you get it? What are three to five ways to get there? If one doesn't work, you have...
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Get What You Want…What are you looking for?
Most of the time, you find what you are looking for. Look for problems, you'll find problems. Look for solutions, you'll find solutions. Even in this year of things that didn't happen, lots of things did. This week is one of high expectations and hopes and fears. Most...
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Get What You Want…Get a Team
I really believe that 2020 or not, we can get what we want. But I don't believe we get it alone. Not really ever but especially in 2020. It takes support to do the big thing. People who believe in you. People who question everything. People who can connect you. People...
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Get What You Want…Be You
I don't know about you, but I have a bunch of habits that kinda work for me, but don't fit the rules that are supposed to be better. I have what some would say are terrible study/writing habits. I like to stay up late, with music or video playing in the background as...
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Get What You Want…Baby Elephant Syndrome?
Sometimes getting what you want means changing how you think. We all tend to suffer from “baby elephant syndrome.” Baby elephants, it seems, were traditionally trained by tying one of their front legs to a stake in the ground. No matter how hard they try they can’t...
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Get What You Want…Gratitude
It may sound a little sappy, but one of the most important things you can do on the road to what you want is to recognize what you already have. In this wild ride of 2020, many of us are missing friends, family, work, travel, and all manner of things. I know I do....
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Get What You Want….No Small Fish
It's no secret that I help people figure out what they want and get it. What is a secret is part of my approach? So many people only admit to part of what they want. They shrink their desire to fit what they think they deserve or they think they can get or they think...
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Get What You Want – Sometimes You Gotta Wait
I know, I know, I am always saying not to wait. So what's up with me? I need to clarify. When there is an action within your control, don't wait, or at least not unless it is a purposeful decision. But sometimes our actions depend on others' decisions and actions and...
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No Matter What
As I write this, polls are just closing on the east coast and won't close on the west for a few hours. Tomorrow will arrive no matter what we know and don't. Don't get me wrong, the outcome of the election matters. It matters a lot. But your goals, your dreams,...
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Opportunity Doesn’t Knock
I listened to a great poetry reading this weekend and heard this amazing line: "Opportunity doesn't knock on my door, she lives here. I made room for her." - Kim B. Miller Manifesting what you want is not about making a vision board and then sitting on the couch...
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Get what you want Wednesday….Ask for it
Today I start a new decade. But it totally snuck up on me. I never actually celebrated the last one so it has seemed like I’ve been 40 for 20 years. Not lying about my age ever but internally, utterly unaware and unconcerned. Covid-19 has made me more aware but...
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What If Wednesday – What if…this is the last one?
In a week, I start a new decade. And I want to change things up. What if Wednesday has been a fun way to introduce things but for some people, “what if” isn’t a fun curious approach, it’s a recipe for anxiety. So, I think, in this uncertain era, it’s run its course....
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